Love is more than fantasy

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Love is more than fantasy 

I used to believe that love is the unseen bond you have with someone, the vibe you get which grows with time and the bond becomes stronger. When you feel happy without any specific reason, you least expect from the other person. Then Thing's get changed and it convinced me that it could be a good vibe you get from someone but it could not be unconditional true love. There might be a person you think you love the most but you people are totally opposite, you may giving them chances, they might show concern but they never know real you, they constantly judge you and blame you for your mistakes. Their words may heal your wounds but they prefer creating confusions, they may show concern care but in actual you felt distant. They might be good people but not the right one. Sometimes more random people could understand you better, but you still chasing and giving chances to ones who can't have the capabilities to understand your struggle, who can't feel your pain, who can't see through your soul. 
Love is more than fantasy and getting vibes, it's the power of feeling pain without uttering, it's to see the depth without judging, it's the part of solution not the problem. May be this is love or not, but still having people around you who can say you yes you are doing your best and I can see your struggles. I know expectations are worst but it's a part of life, expectations are similar to the failures we don't want to face but we have to due to a lot of reasons, any sensible person will surely avoid expectations but one has to face them to grow. 
Period.

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